My New Book
Three Paths to Autonomy & Self-Actualisation for Therapists & Clients
Three paths has many gifts for you;
- A workbook for Transactional Analysts, (and all others in the helping professions) to introduce clients, (and yourself) to Spirituality, Self-Actualisation, and Transcendence.
- All people, consciously or unconsciously, are longing to find their purpose in life, to be on their path to self- actualisation, and connect to their deep inner spiritual self.
- Spiritual connection is essential for mental health and wellbeing.
- Connection to Universe/ Source/God/Higher-Self/Spirit/ Entelechy/Love all being the same, brings joy and happiness and cures other ills in life.
- Spiritual connection brings us back into balance with our natural state of Being, regaining Autonomy; Awareness, Spontaneity and Intimacy.
- Discover what has been stopping you, and clients from finding your purpose and reaching self-actualisation.
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- Learn to work in/with the Quantum field (QF) of all possibilities. There are many meditations in this book to experience the QF, connect deeply with all parts of self, and learn to use the power of the QF to manifest intentions.
- Three paths is suitable for anyone wishing to find their purpose in life, to be consciously on their spiritual path to self-actualisation, and transcendence.
- Several meditations are presented for Redecisions, integrating parts of self, healing, and connecting to spirit.
- Find answers to, Who am I, Why am I here, What is my purpose?
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Interview and information on my new book. Three Paths to Autonomy and Self-Actualisation
My book is an integration of Transactional Analysis, Spirituality, and the Quantum Field. It is a workbook for therapists and clients to work to reach their full potential in areas of life. Three Paths book has many gifts for you.
“When you are present in this moment, you break the continuity of your story of the past and future.
Then true intelligence arises, and also love.”
– Eckart Tolle
Who Is Transactional Analysis Training Suitable For
Individuals and Couples
Educators
Organisations
Community
Trainers, Therapists and Counsellors
Anyone
Where is Transactional Analysis Useful
Firstly, Transactional Analysis when used in counselling and psychotherapy with individuals, groups, couples and families, provides understanding and ways to work through distress, difficulties, everyday problems and changes in their life.
Secondly, TA is a powerful tool for management, communication training, and organisational health; because it provides the skills and mindset to manage and create healthy workplace relations and culture.
Thirdly, in the Educational area TA is an excellent tool which provides information and skills suitable for all ages in the learning process, because it allows clear communication and avoids setting up unproductive confrontations.
As a result, Transactional Analysis can be used whenever there is a need to understand individuals, relationships and communication.
Books Available Now
The Path of Being Series
Being is Your Home A Path Back to Your Inner Soul and True Self There comes a moment in life — sometimes quietly, sometimes through crisis — when you realise that all the striving has not brought you home. You may have achieved. You may have succeeded. You may have done everything “right.” And yet something inside still whispers, There must be more. That whisper is not weakness. It is not dissatisfaction. It is your deeper Self calling you home. In Being is Your HomeI invite you into a different way of living — a way that moves beyond constant doing, performing, achieving and proving. Our culture has trained us to value productivity over presence, accomplishment over connection. But beneath the noise of the world lives your original Being — steady, wise, and already whole. Drawing from over fifty years as a psychotherapist and teacher, and integrating Transactional Analysis, Redecision work, neuroscience, heart coherence practices, and spiritual awareness, I guide you step by step back to your inner home. In this book you will explore:
- The difference between Doing and Being
- How early belief systems quietly shaped your identity
- Why self-actualisation often feels out of reach
- The longing for Physis — your innate life energy
- Masculine and Feminine integration within the psyche
- What blocks connection to your deeper “I AM”
- How anxiety, depression, and the “Un-Sung Song Syndrome” are often signals of disconnection from your true self
- The role of the Quantum Field and how your inner state affects the world around you
This is not a book about becoming someone new. It is about remembering who you already are. You will not be asked to believe anything. You will be invited to experience. Through reflection, gentle exercises, and guided inquiry, you will begin to soften the old scripts that keep you striving and rediscover the still, grounded presence beneath them. When you return to Being, something profound happens: You stop chasing worth. You stop performing for love. You stop living as an orphan in the world. You come home. And when enough of us come home to our Being, the collective field shifts. The world shifts. Peace begins internally before it ever appears externally. This book is both personal and universal. It is written for you — and for the quiet part of humanity that is ready to awaken. Your home has never been outside of you. It has always been here. Waiting.
Rewriting Scripts – Book 1 of 5. Master Redecision Therapy Series
Therapy as a profession stands at a crossroads. In many agencies, clinics, and private practices around the world, clinicians are being asked to do more in less time, to facilitate clinically meaningful change within frameworks that are often brief, symptom-focused, and constrained by external requirements rather than internal reality. Meanwhile, clients are arriving with increasingly complex histories—childhood trauma, shame-based identity structures,
Enter Redecision Therapy—a modality born out of Transactional Analysis theory and developed by Robert and Mary Goulding in the late 1960s. Rooted in an understanding of ego states, early decisions, and life scripts, Redecision Therapy offers a structured, experiential method for helping clients revisit childhood scenes, identify the early decisions that shaped their script, and consciously make new decisions in the context of adult self, safety, and autonomy.
Past, Present & Future
Clearing your past, for living in the present, and as a result, manifesting your dreams and goals.
Everyone has a past, everyone has a present, the future is not written yet.
The question is, do we allow the past old beliefs to sabotage our future. Many people today know they have the ability to manifest goals and dreams in their lives, and yet, even though they put the techniques into practice, it often does not work.
Why? Because we all carry around old home movies in our head, some embarrassing some treasured, and some negative. We tend to hang onto them. Old negative beliefs about Self, Others and Life can block our success.
Most importantly, this book is about clearing your past and outlines clear steps to manifest your goals and dreams.
Secondly, reaching your full potential and being open to your spiritual self can be the result.
Preventing Domestic Violence by Promoting Non Violence
This book follows on from my thesis research that has examined what male social workers believe to be the causes of domestic violence and, more importantly, what they believe causes non-violence between partners.
The research was a qualitative study of interviews with men, mostly social workers, who worked with both perpetrators and victims of domestic violence.
The aims of the research are to provide some answers as to why, despite the attention given to domestic violence and the provision of DV treatment programs by social workers and counsellors, in both public and private sectors, the problem remains intractable.
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